About Black Dating Experiment
Black dating experiment is a blog run by two sisters, one black and one white. My name is Maria and I was brought up in a multiracial household here in London, UK. My mother and father are both white but since I was 5 I have lived with my father and his black wife, who I call my mother. My sister Claire is fully black and theoretically my step sister but we consider ourselves sisters having been raised together from a young age. We have 3 younger mixed siblings who are the product of our parents marriage.
My sister is beautiful, smart, cultured and eloquent. One day she joined up on a dating site. She expressed her disappointment at how very few black men were interested in dating her. The ones that she messaged first would very often ignore her and the ones that did express interest were not that interested, seemingly expecting her to ask them out on dates. She said that she got the feeling that a lot of black men held great disdain for black women. I found it hard to believe that what Claire was saying could be true so we set about (albeit in a deceptive manner) discovering the truth.
I set up a profile myself (as a chick called Lauren) making it very similar to her own profile. We are both the same age (30) so I left the age the same. The results were astounding. I started off messaging the men that had ignored her to see if they would bite, and bite they did. We then set about wooing them and then throwing stereotypes at them and cussing black women to see if any of them would stand up for black women or themselves. I was very disappointed to see that virtually all of them did not (JUST ONE DID so KUDOS to him). They were so desperate to bag a blonde beauty that they laughed off any insults and begged Lauren to meet, even when she would pull out her gold digger card. A few of the guys Claire even spoke to on the telephone pretending to be our blonde beauty. She continued in the same vein on the phone and still NONE said a thing. It is truly shocking.
See the results below and thank you for reading. Please note: Each post must be read from the BOTTOM - UP.
Thursday, 8 August 2013
Sunday, 18 December 2011
This was a Nigerian guy who was keen to meet our blonde beauty no matter what she said about not wanting to have a nappy headed baby girl or telling him that most Africans have HIV. SMH!
Posted by Black Dating Experiment at 11:47
Sunday, 11 December 2011
Another self loather who agrees with our blonde beauty that black women have bad attitudes and bad weaves and get this... He has 5 sisters! No more words are needed just read below and remember to read from the bottom up.
Posted by Black Dating Experiment at 09:31
This was the only black man (so far) that defended his mother and he did it straight away. He was not going to let our beauty go on a rant about black women. He shut her down almost immediately and politely declined from any further contact. *a round of applause* to him. When it looked like there was no hope he spoke out. Kudos to him.
Posted by Black Dating Experiment at 09:11
This was the guy that shocked me the most. He had a Ghanaian name and WENT IN on Nigerian girls, despite us never once mentioning nationality. It was really odd. I guess because our blonde was venting he decided to join her. Nothing that we said could shake him, except perhaps paying for the date. This guy was truly scum, even when our blonde beauty talked about how black women smelt and she could not be around any of her exes mothers he didn't flinch. Even when she suggested genetic engineering to ensure she didn't have to deal with "nappy headed girls" he was all for it. This is truly self loathing in its worst form. Again. Please read from the bottom up to follow the conversation.
Posted by Black Dating Experiment at 06:34
Saturday, 10 December 2011
So this guy was desperate for a date with our blonde beauty. Even on the phone when she spoke to him she was spewing the same filth that she did in the messages and he still wasn't giving up on her. Stated she was the type of woman he would want to marry. If this isn't self hate I don't know what is. Read from the bottom up.
Posted by Black Dating Experiment at 12:17